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University student passes away Sunday

Medical examiners cannot yet confirm cause of death of fraternity brother, psychology student Joe Arwood

Fourth-year College student Joe Arwood passed away Sunday morning at the University Medical Center. The cause of death is not yet known.

Arwood, a member of Sigma Phi Society, was found unconscious at the house Friday morning by one of his fraternity brothers, who then administered CPR, said Psychology Prof. Michael Kubovy, Arwood's distinguished major thesis adviser. Arwood then was taken to the Medical Center for treatment, said Miles Sisson, the president of the University's chapter of the fraternity, which is commonly known as SERP.

Medical examiners have yet to release any information about the death, University spokesperson Carol Wood said, adding that the University does not know when the tests will be completed.\n"What we're doing is waiting for the medical examiner and for Joe's parents to release any information on cause of death, and we don't know when we'll have that," she said. "That could be a week - we just don't know when."

Arwood passed away just before noon on Sunday, Wood said. During the weekend, various University deans and administrators - including Pat Lampkin, vice president and chief student affairs officer - made themselves available for his family, fraternity brothers and friends.

"Everybody was there all weekend for anything that the family needed," she said. "I think more than anything, they just wanted prayers through the weekend."

The fraternity brothers were joined by Lampkin, Dean of Students Allen Groves, Asst. Dean of Students Nicole Eramo and Matt Zimmerman of Counseling and Psychological Services, who all offered their support. In addition, the Office of the Dean of Students made hotel reservations for Arwood's parents, Groves said, when they arrived at the hospital Friday evening.

Arwood was active in his fraternity, taking the position of House Manager for the past year, said fourth-year Engineering student Matthew Restivo, a first-year hallmate and fraternity brother of Arwood.

Outside of the fraternity, he volunteered at HELP Line, the University's student-run anonymous telephone service for those looking for someone to speak to about any emotional turmoil or problems.\n"He was always a good person to talk to," Restivo said.

Kubovy expressed similar sentiments, adding that he knew Arwood through both his psychology lab and a seminar this semester.

"He was a charming, articulate, passionate person," Kubovy said. "Wherever he went, he was very well-liked and highly respected."

As a psychology major, Arwood's research primarily focused on music and the perception of rhythm, Kubovy said. He had spent the past year studying the brain mechanisms that allow humans to perceive rhythm and was about to start writing his thesis before graduating in May.

"I have little doubt that eventually this work would've been published, and he would've been a co-author, so it's really a terrible loss," Kubovy added. "He might eventually have gone to graduate school in cognitive science, and I think he would've done very well."

Kubovy added that Arwood also had taken classes with his wife, Music Prof. Judith Shatin.

"He was talented in many areas. He was studying Arabic [and] he studied songwriting with my wife, and she spoke very highly of him," he said.

Groves added that the Office of the Dean of Students is available to anyone who needs support and is hoping to continue outreach to any such students. Because of the location of the fraternity house, many students passing by were able to discern that a tragedy had occurred, Groves said.

"The way this works is not something you wake up the next day and it's over, and that oftentimes you feel better for 3-4 days, and then it hits you again," he said. "This is going to be a challenging situation for all of them to get through."

He also encouraged members of the University community to rely on one another to deal with the situation, noting that the community is relatively close-knit for the size of the school.

"It's not easy. A young person is not supposed to die. It's unnatural," he said, "and when that happens, that just brings very close to home the relationships that you have, the fragility of life and the fact that somebody you love is gone and is gone unexpectedly."

Wood said Arwood's family has yet to decide upon any funeral arrangements. The University will have a memorial service, as well, but the details have not been determined.

"We're really just trying to wait and follow the parents' lead right now and give them they time they need," she said. "This is hard on everybody. A loss like this just has a ripple effect on the University"


Published April 6, 2010 in News

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John
(04/06/10 4:22am)
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[This comment has been removed for representing unsubstantiated rumor as fact, specifically in regards to drug allegations and cause of death. Although the Managing Board of The Cavalier Daily aims to take a hands-off approach to comment moderation in deference to freedom of speech, as stated in our commenting policy we reserve the right to remove comments that are deemed to be in poor taste.]\n- Managing Board


Earnan
(04/06/10 10:23am)
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John why don't you put your last name on your post if you're gonna make these accusations about someone you admittedly do not know? His family and friends will be reading this article. Leave it alone, he's gone now let him rest in peace.


DJ
(04/06/10 10:23am)
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I FIND JOHN'S COMMENT POSTED ABOVE ON 04/06, VERY DISRESPECTFUL TO THE FAMILY, AND I FEEL AS THOUGH IT NEEDS TO BE REMOVED IMMEDIATELY!


Jeff
(04/06/10 10:26am)
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Freedom of speech, DJ


Earnan
(04/06/10 10:38am)
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Or Libel


Darah
(04/06/10 10:57am)
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The death of someone close to us leave us shocked with grief. We cannot understand how one minute this person was here and the next they are gone. The truth is that those we love are never truly gone. The body may have run its course, but the soul lives forever. \nJoseph was not only my cousin, but a great friend. I have fond memories of him, and will hold those close to my heart forever.\nPlease keep the Arwood family in your thoughts and prayers.

God Bless\n+++


John
(04/06/10 11:02am)
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It looks like John has been reading the posts on CollegeACB.com, fueling further rumors that are ABSOLUTELY UNTRUE! Check where you get your information from before you start posting disrespectful things about people you do not know.


Lydia
(04/06/10 11:49am)
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Thank You Calvalier Daily for writing this article about Joseph. His death has come as a complete and total shock to our whole family. Joseph was a kind, caring, and intelligent young man; who had a very promising future ahead of him. But sadly he was taken from us all on Sunday. We can't explain why these things happen in life....But they do. We have no right to question God, this was Joseph's time to go and we have to except that. Please continue to remember our family in your prayers as we too are praying for Joseph's fraternity brothers, friends, and fellow UVA students. May God give us all peace and understanding during this very difficult time. \nWe Love you Joseph--Until we meet again.....Give Pop a hug from us all.


Allen Groves
(04/06/10 12:06pm)
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I am saddened to see a comment like the first one posted here. One would hope that compassion and care for family and friends would lead us to exercise better discretion in what we choose to say. Rumors can be particularly hurtful and damaging. By all accounts, this was a kind and bright young man who was loved by the many who knew him.


Sean
(04/06/10 12:23pm)
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This comment has been removed as it violates the portion of our comment policy regarding libelous statements.


Karma
(04/06/10 12:37pm)
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I have heard from friends who are connected with some of the people who recently left the Cav Daily staff that the reason that the paper is not eager to publish stories about drugs and predatory dating is that there is a long standing atmosphere of drug abuse and sexual harassment in their offices. These people said that they simply could no longer work in such a disgusting and unsafe environment.\nThe ties that this paper has to the University administration shelter it from scrutiny. As the saying goes... never get into an argument with anyone who buys ink by the barrel. It's about time this door was opened and some light was shed on the degenerates who operate the Cavalier Daily.


Jeff
(04/06/10 12:41pm)
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Leave it to Sean to dig up a 20 year old article and stand on the soap box and take advantage of a death to stir the pot. Waaaay to go dude. Pretty low brow.


CLAS '10
(04/06/10 12:42pm)
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Sean, once again you have been able to distinguish yourself as a callous jerk who takes any opportunity available to capitalize on the misfortune of others to further your agenda against Casteen and the University. Bravo!


Laura
(04/06/10 12:47pm)
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As entertaining as conspiracy theories may be, this seems like an inappropriate time and forum. This article is about Joseph, his life and tragic death, not about how Carr's Hill is covering up some unsavory aspect of his death. I knew Joseph and knew him to be a quiet, but nice, polite, and musically-inclined young man.

Instead of focusing on hypotheticals, as we don't even know the cause of death, I recommend we instead focus on Joseph's life and memory. God bless him and may his family find peace in this difficult time. My heart and prayers go out to them.


Jeff
(04/06/10 12:48pm)
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Karma,

a friend of a friend who heard something is not a reliable source. Acusations that you are making are serious and should be thought through before putting them in an open forum like this. They are mean and acusatory without basis. That is the problem with tabloid trash and rumor, it is so hurtful and often not true. As we get older, we learn that our words have consequences and hopefully tone down the rhetoric.


Karma
(04/06/10 1:03pm)
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Jeff, you are exactly right. If anyone believes that my earlier post carries any weight at all, then you should pack your bags and leave the University because your presence here is an insult to the rest of the student body. That post contains not a single fact, a boatload of nasty allegations, and an admission that I have no idea what the heck I am talking about. \nI posted it to illustrate to the editorial staff the pain they can cause by not maintaining their responsibility for the content on these forums. After several requests were made to encourage them to remove John's post, no action had been taken. This is pathetic. I am very happy to see that the paper has finally removed John's libelous post.\nI encourage them to do the same with mine. It is entirely without merit. None of the accusations are accurate, and it does nothing to recognize the pain and suffering of the friends and family of a fine young man who was tragically lost this weekend.\nMy thoughts and prayers go out to the family and friends of Joe Arwood. Joe, by all accounts your time at the University was a gift to those who were fortunate enough to know you. Whatever the circumstances of your final hours, your passing was a loss to all of us. May your final gift be our ability to find a little more friendship, love, and truth in the community you left behind.


Horatio
(04/06/10 1:19pm)
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I'd like to point out that re-stating the accusations in the redaction is despicable and shows a true lack of character on the Cavalier Daily editorial staff. Karma, if they had removed your first post before your second, I wonder if they would have done so with the same editorial slant.\nIf you remove a post because it states rumor as fact, and then you repeat the rumor can you really call yourself a journalist? Would you want this decision to be the one you are asked about at your next job interview?\nHonor trumps ambition, and integrity is the foundation from which both should grow. I encourage the editorial staff of the Cavalier Daily to examine the wording of their statement and determine if this is an accusation they honestly feel comfortable standing behind. This is supposed to be a newspaper, not a tabloid. And you are supposed to be the leaders of tomorrow standing proud at center stage, not the slackers spreading rumors behind the bleachers.\nGod Bless Joe Arwood and his family. I wish that the University community and the editors of this paper had enough character to spare you the additional pain caused by the depraved rants of selfish egos.


Bonar Law
(04/06/10 2:04pm)
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Bravo Sean, you've reached a new low.


Sean
(04/06/10 2:05pm)
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Just checked the Charlottesville news TV networks' and newspapers' websites for breaking, hot off the presses news about UVA:

"Jeff Jones to transfer from basketball program"

"Tiki Barber separates from wife"

UVA gets new LEED Building"

Not a word about a UVA student dropping unconscious at a frat house last Friday, or dying last Sunday at UVA hospital. They won't dare.

Hate me all you want, folks, the Carr's Hill media machine is very busy at present. We may never know the actual cause of death, but via word of mouth. We may just be "protected" from knowing such information. This will probably be another Will Barrow type situation where there's one very carefully worded article saying that a young UVA student has died, no reason given. The end...

Again, my condolences to his family and friends, no matter how it did or did not happen. One way or the other, I know all too well how much this sucks for those who were close to him. But please, don't let the UVA folks tell you to cover up what happened. Whatever it was, it's time for some AWARENESS !


Josh
(04/06/10 2:29pm)
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Sean, the insensitivity of your comments are only eclipsed by their ignorance. I can't fathom what kind of person would make such baseless insinuations during such a time as this.


Jacob Arwood
(04/06/10 5:13pm)
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Sean,\nThere's more respect for my brother on the UVA campus than you could ever imagine. If you haven't learned that this isn't the time for you to raise your hand and make a statement about the local media, then you'd better learn quickly. This comment page is made for people who knew him and have reasonable things to say about him. So it's time for you to fuck off and take your opinions elsewhere.


Sean
(04/06/10 5:31pm)
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Jacob,

I never said anything disrespectful about your brother, nor did I say that he was not respected. Quite on the contrary. Nor was anything I said unreasonable. If you read my posts again, you will see that.

I don't take orders from you, so no promises regarding whether I post here again or not. But in deference to you if indeed my very polite comments and sympathy expressed to your family have upset grieving people further - I offer you an apology and I will go away from this thread for at least a while. At least until such time as there is concrete information.

I knew Will Barrow - although not well - and I was much closer to yet another person that very near ended in as bad a tragedy that occurred on campus. So it was salt in a wound, if you will. I stand by my words. Sorry (again) for your loss.


Anthony Gallo
(04/06/10 6:13pm)
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Sean, your comments were not polite, completely unreasonable, and completely disrespectful of this situation. Go away and start up your own forum on College ACB or the Hook if you want to create controversy and gossip. One thing that continues to somehow elude you is your complete disregard for this family's privacy (and in all likelihood, the privacy of the Barrow family as well).

Joe was an incredible human being who touched so many people here at U.Va. and elsewhere. He was one of the most unique individuals I have ever encountered, and I cannot describe to you how much his presence will be missed by those close to him. Keep his family in your prayers. Jacob, I'm here for you, man.


Kirsten Schofield
(04/06/10 6:59pm)
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Jacob's response to Sean's insensitive and untimely comments only confirm what I already thought: Joe's family is reading about him. Base speculation, conspiracy theories, and the like are irrelevant, unwelcome, and cruel. At a time like this, we should be here to support those who were closest to Joe; doing anything else is disrespectful and hurtful.\nJoe was one of my closest friends and he was loved beyond measure. He was a kind, gentle, compassionate person who would have done anything for a person in need. There are not words for how much he will be missed; we would do anything to have him back. \nHe would have shown miles more respect and grace than some have chosen to show him. We would appreciate it if you would keep your hurtful comments to yourself while we mourn the loss of one of the most outstanding men we have ever had the privilege to know. \nJacob, we're here for you. Don't hesitate to pick up the phone if you need anything at all.


Jordan Gorsky
(04/06/10 7:41pm)
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I am still in shock that all of this has actually taken place. Its going to be some time before I'll be at ease. Joe was quite possibly my best friend. He was my first friend, and the longest lasting one, and very few people are allowed the honor of knowing a person like him. Without a doubt, there is no comparison to stand up next to him. He was friends to all who knew him, and if he had any enemies, I've never caught word of them. He was brilliant, talented, and caring. He inspired me in many ways, and often opened the doors to new and amazing things to myself and all of his other friends. I am glad, however, that he actually lived his life. Many people make it through the daily grind without living, but not Joe. He was full of life, more so than most can claim, and he instilled everyone around him with that life as well. While he may have passed, I know that he lives on in every person he had contact with, and he will never be forgotten, and he will never fade away.

See you on the flip-side.



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