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Ryan and Gabby

Gabby engages Ryan in conversation despite distractions of basketball game

<p><strong></strong><strong>Ryan</strong></p><p><em>Year</em>: Second</p><p><em>Major</em>: Pre-Comm</p><p><em>Hometown</em>: Fairfax</p><p><em>Ideal Date Personality</em>: Someone fun, easy to chill with</p><p><em>Ideal Date Activity</em>: Watching the Hoos dominate basketball</p><p><em>Describe a typical weekend</em>: Going out on Friday night, getting up early on Saturday, a few parties, dinner with some friends, doing all my homework Sunday night</p><p><em>Hobbies</em>: Sleeping, eating and watching the Hoos</p><p><em>What makes you a good catch?</em> My witty sense of humor and laid-back vibes make me pretty easy to get along with.</p><p><em>What makes you a less-than-perfect catch?</em> I often come off as not caring, and sometimes people take that the wrong way. </p>

Ryan

Year: Second

Major: Pre-Comm

Hometown: Fairfax

Ideal Date Personality: Someone fun, easy to chill with

Ideal Date Activity: Watching the Hoos dominate basketball

Describe a typical weekend: Going out on Friday night, getting up early on Saturday, a few parties, dinner with some friends, doing all my homework Sunday night

Hobbies: Sleeping, eating and watching the Hoos

What makes you a good catch? My witty sense of humor and laid-back vibes make me pretty easy to get along with.

What makes you a less-than-perfect catch? I often come off as not caring, and sometimes people take that the wrong way. 

Ryan and Gabby met on Friday at 7 p.m. and went to Café Caturra on the Corner.

Gabby: [I signed up because] I love meeting new people. Plus, I’d never been on a blind date before.

Ryan: I’ve never been on a blind date before.

Gabby: At first, I was surprised at how fast it happened, but, in general, I was just really excited and nervous to meet him!

Ryan: [When we met], I didn’t know who I was looking for. Thankfully she came up to me.

Gabby: I didn’t know if it would be awkward or whether both of us would be able to have a good time with it.

Ryan: My first impression was that she was cute. She was really outdoorsy, which seemed kind of cool.

Gabby: I thought that he was a walking Vineyard Vines ad.

Ryan: [The date] was definitely awkward at first. I felt unprepared. She made it less awkward by stimulating the conversation.

Gabby: [We went to] Café Caturra.

Ryan: We both had a nice big glass of water. I had the club sandwich, which was excellent.

Gabby: The conversation was pretty easy and natural. However, I felt like I initiated [conversation for] the majority of the date. Our conservation focused mainly on sports — U.Va.’s men’s basketball team — and traveling.

Ryan: She was definitely doing most of the talking — without a doubt. I would have been fine with just watching the basketball game, but [I] was trying to [engage in] the conversation.

Gabby: [One thing we have in common is that] we both love sports.

Ryan: We’ve both been to Europe, but she seemed more keen on travelling the world than I [am].

Gabby: If we were to go out again, it would be as friends. While I didn’t feel a romantic connection, Ryan was still fun to talk to and hang out with.

Ryan: I didn’t feel that there was too much flirting going on. We were trying to be nice and [we both] recognized that it’s an awkward situation.

Gabby: As soon as we finished eating, we decided to leave because there were others waiting to get seated.

Ryan: I’d be open to exploring a romantic connection.

Gabby: I would rate the date a 6. I had a fun time, but we are just very different in terms of interests and passions.

Ryan: I would rate the date a 7. It was kind of awkward at first, but we seemed to be able to carry the conversation despite me being angled toward the basketball screen [the whole time].

This week’s Love Connection is sponsored by Cafe Caturra.

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