ADAMES: Grinding down gender roles
By Alexander Adames | March 23, 2015What is fascinating about grinding is the internalization of the roles ascribed in accordance to one’s gender performativity. The next time you are at a party, I encourage you to examine partygoers on the dance floor. You will find there is no discussion of who will take the role of the grindee or grinder. The roles are assumed. Both individuals presume that the male or masculine person should be the grindee and the grinder should be the female or feminine person.