My affliction of cougar-ism
By Madigan Wirkus | 6 days agoAlthough a fourth-year dating a third-year may seem like a minor discrepancy to most, I find myself subconsciously justifying the age gap constantly.
Madigan Wirkus is a staff writer for the life desk. She is a fourth-year College student from Franklin, Mass., majoring in Media Studies and minoring in Public Policy and Leadership in the Frank Batten School of Leadership and Public Policy. She frequently covers topics such as relationships and sexual health resources, as well as the occasional feature for the life desk.
Although a fourth-year dating a third-year may seem like a minor discrepancy to most, I find myself subconsciously justifying the age gap constantly.
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